Private Ponderings

Bucked Off

2010-11-22T01:14:00.005-06:00

Ahh yes, it finally happened to me. All was running along smoothly - the blog was restarted, I was full of inspiration, I was actually writing again on a regular basis and then it happened. After 5 1/2 years, my entire team and I were fired on September 13th. It was...rude and crass. I understand that there are a lot of stupid people around that do a lot of stupid things, but, you would think with our group, the bosses would have known we wouldn't do anything stupid if they gave us a little advance warning. Turns out, THEY were the stupid ones. It is really a shock after working so long for something, to have the plug pulled in an instant.

Bucked off.

Well, I've dusted myself off, picked myself up off the ground and am running again. New job, new inspiration, and a better way at reaching my goals. I've often said that the Good Lord has a full time job looking after my dumb ass, and He worked OVERTIME on this one! Less than a month later, I had a new full time job. I am blessed, yet again.

Rob-Roy Going At It Again - - New Robin Carnahan Ad Against Roy Blunt

2010-09-10T23:28:00.007-05:00

By far, this is the funniest ad I have seen in a long time! Since Democrats usually don't come out "swinging the ball bat" at their opponents, this is equally surprising at how she bluntly calls Blunt out. If you've not seen it, watch it here - it is priceless!

Oh, I also find it funny that Carnahan is using Billy Long's "Fed Up?" campaign slogan so well to her advantage!

Labor Day 2010: A Reflection on The Working Class

2010-09-05T13:31:00.009-05:00

Once a year, a day is set aside for the men and women who work so hard day in and day out all year. Usually, there are parades in town and the most active Labor Unions use the day to tout the contributions of Labor to society as a whole. Yet, Labor Day is more than Unions. It is more than Republican or Democrat or Tea Party. Labor Day should be a day where we reflect on the overall working conditions as a whole, find inspiration among others, and take that inspiration and try to make a change for the better in our own places of work.

Men and women of all ages, political and religious backgrounds make up our work force - most are good people who spend long hours at work away from their families. They work in a a wide range of conditions - some very good, and others that are extremely oppressive. Some work for wages that are well above "livable" - meaning they can pay all of their bills, buy food, clothing, etc...and have a little left over at the end of the day. Some however, work as hard as they can - working 2 jobs even, and have to worry about juggling the mortgage, paying the electric and utilities, wondering where money for the next repair bill is going to come from because they have no savings. Health care? That is a fantasy for many.

A friend told me that there would be no need for Labor Unions if employers treated their people fairly. It's not hard to see why there are unions - you maybe get a 3% raise if you get one at all. But your insurance goes up by 12%. To add insult to injury, when minimum wage increased, many employers did not raise the salaries of their people so in essence, we are working for them even cheaper than before.

Don't forget among the cook outs, the the lake and the parades this weekend that this nation continues to be built on the hard work of people everywhere. Because you enjoy the fruits and benefits of living in the greatest country in the world, remember it is ultimately your responsibility to do your best to find a way to help others who work hard, yet don't get to enjoy a part of the American dream.

Making the Impossible Possible

2010-08-30T15:55:00.002-05:00

For a long time, I've really wanted to get into wood working. I don't know a THING about it. Have no clue how to operate a drill press, circular or band saw, or most other power tools. See, the "Private School" I attended as a young man did me a great injustice by killing off "Industrial Arts" before I was old enough to take the class. SO, here I am. Wanting to start out and not having the faintest idea how to do it.

Here's what I will be making tho - a fret-less mountain banjo. Nothing sounds like them, nothing feels like them, and I know I can do it. There are gun and fiddle makers in my family, in fact, my great grandfather was one of them. It's got to run in the blood. How else do you know that you'll be successful before you even start?

Well, there's always the possibility that I'm a raving head case too...

It's Rob-Roy This Way,That Way, and Everywhere You Go

2010-08-26T13:53:00.010-05:00

It's August and already Robin Carnahan and Roy Blunt are slinging mud at each other. I have dubbed them with the nickname "Rob-Roy" for convenience. You'll notice around every signature show on television, their commercials dominate to see who can out do who in the arena of nastiness. Gone already are the days of the positive effect someone could have in Washington. Gone are the speeches on high ideals, high ethics, the ability to affect things for the better, and actually, higher standards. Anyone who would dare speak in the positive MUST be "high" themselves!

But dear friend, when you look at the root cause, it's really not their fault, it's ours.

We don't respond well to "pie in the sky" ideals anymore. If it's all sunshine and apple pie, then it can't be worth our effort to know what the issue is or to go vote on it. It's also our fault that we have not pushed our Congressional Representatives and Senators to pass a strong campaign finance bill. When running for office in a heated Arkansas primary costs more than most people will ever make in 6 life times, the system is completely broken. Ditto in Missouri.

I expected better from Rob-Roy, and I am disappointed in both of you.

Sweet Sweet Music - Tim Eriksen

2010-08-26T12:50:00.006-05:00

As I was working through things today, I decided that I wanted something to listen to while I was working. Lately, I've been fascinated with the sound of the Mountain Banjo - the kind you will find in "Foxfire 3" that Stanley Hicks made famous. As I was searching, I ran across a banjo player named Tim Eriksen. Tim sings everything that is old, from hymns to ballads, to story songs. He is a man after my own heart as I think I was born old in many ways.

Here is a snipped about him that I found on Wikipedia:

Eriksen is a Ph.D. candidate in ethnomusicology at Wesleyan University, having received an M.A. in the same discipline from Wesleyan in 1993, and has served as a visiting music professor at Dartmouth College, Amherst College, Hampshire College and the University of Minnesota.^[5] He has also taught in Poland and The Czech Republic.^[1] Additionally, Eriksen is a collector of variations of folk songs, and has conducted extensive research on traditional Yugoslavian music.^[2]^[6] Eriksen shared his extensive knowledge of folk music while a consultant for the soundtrack of the film Cold Mountain.^[1]^[2]

Amazing sound. I hope you will give it a listen and find a favorite or two yourself.

The Road To Hell...

2010-08-25T08:06:00.005-05:00

When I started this blog some years ago, I meant it to be a daily reflection of my thoughts, feelings, and my unusual takes on life in the 417. Yet, I should have known better. You see, I am one of those people that a 1 year journal will last 3 years. I let my time get eaten up by other things, and end up not writing every day like I plan.

I guess it's not all a bad thing, but it does fall into that saying: "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions." I've had lots of good intentions over time but they don't always pan out.

So, to those of you who check back on occasion to see if I'm still fogging a mirror, indeed, I am. Thank you for your patience, and your reading. Best hopes that I don't take that road again anytime soon.

--MR

Memorial Day 2009

2009-05-25T16:51:00.005-05:00

It was lovely to be able to go out this weekend and decorate graves, and spend time with the family. I work too much. I never take off the time that I SHOULD take off. When I am off, most of the time I am exhausted or doing school work,and that does little to help the little one's enjoy life.

Memorial Day is a time to reflect, and to plan ahead for the future. May you be as blessed as I.

Crooks...Damned Crooks!

2009-04-28T12:06:00.007-05:00

I was doing my daily scouring of news today, and came across this article (CLICK HERE)
on how Bank of America and CitiGroup might need more money. I have had no dealings with CitiGroup, but I have B of A. In my opinion, you can't find a more worthless group of greedy, unfriendly, corporate crooks ANYWHERE! They do not look after the interests of their patrons, they levy stiff and inflexible fines, and I never felt better than when I took my money elsewhere.

Greedy crooked bastards. If they can't survive on their ill-gotten funds from their poor patrons, let them go out of business. Help some mom and pop banks that have tried to help people during the crisis, instead of these silly fools who created it in the first place.

Bank of America...we would be better off without you!

Where Does It End?

2009-04-23T17:34:00.007-05:00

There is little doubt now that our country is in it's worst economic shape since the start of the Great Depression. News announced today alleges that Chrysler could file for bankruptcy next week, and rumors persist that GM will shutter 12-plants for nine weeks in the summer with three of those plants possibly being in Detroit.

I am worried. While we are not an auto making community and won't suffer directly, we will suffer indirectly, depending upon the depth of the disaster in front of us. Parts companies, shipping, other manufacturers, stores, restaurants, and other businesses will all feel the crunch. Also, this will either work a miracle for GM or be it's death. Either reduced prices will mean people will flock to car lots to buy a good deal, or the will run like hell to Ford and other car makers because they don't want their new car to be hung out when the parent company goes belly up. Where does it end? When? Soon, I hope. Pray hard for those that are going to be affected by this next wave of ripples.

STUNNING...MANLEY OFF COUNCIL!!

2009-04-20T21:14:00.005-05:00

Dave Catanese has just scored one of the biggest "bombshell stories" of the year. It appears that Councilman Ralph Manley lost a power play, and handed in his resignation from Springfield City Council.

Did anyone know there was a power play going on? Were there any indications Manley was ready to make this move? Did the old boy finally loose his marbles all over the council chamber floor or what? I will be watching the news tonight for more!

Now, Something on the Lighter Side...

2009-04-20T18:52:00.003-05:00

Two great reasons to go to "Rock'n Ribs!"

--Photo courtesy of John K.

A Shot In the Arm is Always Good

2009-04-20T18:16:00.004-05:00

Thanks to "Max" for letting me know that when a tree falls in the forest, somehow, someone usually hears it. His response to my post last night, was one more response than I thought I would get...and oh yeah, it was the ONLY one! LOL It's nice to know that someone out there somewhere wants to know what's going on with the ol' gray matter upstairs.

Today, Columbine has been on my mind. 10-years ago...hard to believe that much time has passed since that fateful day. I was a news reporter at the time, watched it unfold, did stories, sweated my butt off, and felt the humanity with the rest of everyone else. I think it's still possible for something like that to happen, but hopefully, it's more difficult. Springfield schools I think are better prepared...but it's because of the hard work of the teachers, and not that of the bumbling School Board, that children can feel a little safer.

But it wasn't so long ago...you carried a pocket knife to school, and there were tons of guns in the trucks of boys, especially during hunting season. No one thought a thing about it. What changed? Why? Life will never be the same, but sometimes I wish it was as simple as it used to be.

Time...

2009-04-19T23:59:00.005-05:00

It has been so long since I've posted, this will almost be like the tree falling in the forest...no one will hear it. Likewise, no one will read this I don't imagine for sometime, and it's more than understandable why.

There is this strangeness going on with me that I can't explain. It's not bad mind you, but it is now making me think about every little thing that I do and every thought that I have. My life in review so to speak...and big portions of it are great, and big portions of it suck. My fault for the bad, I don't blame anyone else. Yet it's not SO bad that things can't be changed to have the outcome I desire.

Do I have the guts to do it? A quote from Dale Carnegie has really made me think about all of these things as well...

"Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get."

Hot Time In Old Havana Tonight!

2008-09-09T09:08:00.005-05:00

Hurricane Ike is ripping through Cuba right now, and Havana is expected to get the punishing winds of a Catagory 3 hurricane. Check out this video (though in Spanish) it shows the enormity of the winds and the water that the people are facing.

My prediction is that if Cuba (Havana) receives much damage, President Raul Castro will allow aid from all countries, and ask for it specifically from the United States. If this happens, this will be the catalyst for renewed relations between the two countries. But, we'll see...

Thanks!

2008-09-02T10:35:00.003-05:00

It's amazing that in all the time I have been running this blog, the most hits I've received have been since I uploaded pictures that I took at an event. John Stone (Curbstone Critic - r.i.p.) used to have fantastic pictures on his blog, and I think it has been missed.

Thanks to everyone for checking them out, I appreciate it. I hope you enjoyed looking at them as much as I enjoyed taking them.

-- MR

Springfield Labor Day Parade 2008 - My Pictures

2008-09-01T17:15:00.008-05:00

Hats off to the working men and women of the Ozarks - we ALL deserve a day to celebrate our hard-earned accomplishments. You can check out "MY PHOTOS" for all of the one's I took today. I was especially proud to see / meet fellow blogger Jim Lee - aka - BUS PLUNGE

"W." Directed by Oliver Stone

2008-08-28T14:16:00.005-05:00

You know if it's done by Oliver Stone, it's gonna' be good! Release is scheduled for the 29th of October, 2008. Here's the trailer:

A Story That You Must Read For Yourself

2008-08-25T01:55:00.006-05:00

Bloggers Note: An amazing story that I found ... it was forwarded - I have no idea who wrote it, but I hope it brings you as much goodness and warmth as it did me. Enjoy! --M.R.

"To All Married Couples and Singles Who Intend to Get Married"

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, "You are not a man!"

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy.

Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.

I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest... I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning... This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.

Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, "Dad, it's time to carry mum out." To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, "Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore."

She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. "Do you have a fever?", she said. I moved her hand off my head. "Sorry, Dew," I said, "I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart."

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote: "I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart."

The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you just might save a marriage.

Relationships are made not to exploit, not to be broken.

We teach some by what we say
We teach some more by what we do
But we teach most by what we are
- Unknown

You don't get to choose how you are going to die, or when, but, you can decide how you are going to live, here and now.

Remember:

People will forget what you said...
People will forget what you did...
But people will never forget how you made them feel....

You have to learn lessons also from others mistakes because you will not get time to do all the mistakes on your own.

Random Thought...

2008-08-25T00:50:00.004-05:00

"...there's girls, there's women, and there's ladies..." says the line from the old country song. That lyric has been stuck running around in my head about 90 miles an hour today and it has left me with the following:

Admit it or not, to some degree, we base relationships on looks. Have you ever seen someone you thought was so unattractive that you wondered who would ever go out with them or who would find them good looking? If you're completely honest with yourself, I'll bet you have seen this person at least once.

Ok...lets carry this a step further. Is there someone out there somewhere who will find our "ugly duckling" attractive and "just right" for them? Or, is this poor person destined to go through life being used...never taken out on a date, never being really appreciated, and strictly used as a "booty-call" because they are easy and will give it up because they want the attention from others?

Your thoughts?

The Death Of Radio - The "True Birth" of the 22nd Century

2008-08-22T16:11:00.010-05:00

Seldom are we privy to "a moment in time" that completely changes EVERYTHING we've done before. We've had these moments all along throughout human history: candles and coal oil lamps replaced with the first twinge of light from a light bulb. Horse and buggy, along with trains being stopped by the turning over of the automobile engine. Primary sources of information have gone from Western Union, Pony Express, and the US Mail to Television, Radio, and the Internet.

Today, is the death of radio as we know it. For many years, it has been the most portable tool for information. Easy to carry around a radio...not easy to carry a TV. Easy to listen to a radio for the latest news, yes, I can bring my laptop, but not everyone has a WIFI zone. Today or tomorrow, we will have one of those moments that strikes radio as the most portable medium for information gathering and destroys it forever... depending on when "The Text" is released.

Yes, I said it, "The Text." It's already being touted as "The Text Heard 'Round the World" - Democratic Presidential Candidate Barack Obama's use of a text message to cell phone's everywhere, informing his supporters of his Vice Presidential choice.

Wow. 2008 changes everything - the 1st Black Presidential Candidate, and the death of radio information, via a single text message on your cell phone. Are you ready for it??

John McCain is Out of Touch with Reality

2008-08-21T10:27:00.007-05:00

So, less than 24-hours ago, I posted about how despondent I was concerning the elections and the state of politics in general. My apathy and disgust has been huge, and I didn't know how I would be able to work myself out of it.

Then this morning...a gift from the divine. Something that couldn't be made up in fiction because the truth (or what appears to be the truth) is much more entertaining. Republican Presidential hopeful John McCain, the man who served our country so well in the military...is out of touch with the common man.

CLICK HERE to read the story from the Associated Press on how Sen. McCain...had NO CLUE how many homes he and his wife own. He and John Edwards would have been a great team...McCain shuttling between numerous houses, while Edwards could stash a few mistresses away in those unknown address, and keep looking good with his $300 hair cuts.

Sad. These are the people who govern you and I.

Singin' the Blues at Election Time

2008-08-20T22:20:00.005-05:00

Dear friends, I am a "political animal"...please, let me explain. I can't recite to you who starred in what television show or movie, nor can I rattle off stats from my favorite football team, and since the strike all those years ago, I despise Baseball.

But politics...now that's my game! I love seeing the debates, the formulation of policy, the ranking of issues. I love watching the men and women wishing to represent us press the flesh, speak their minds, stump it wherever they can, and either savor the sweet sweet taste of success, or swallow their gut in defeat. Yes...I LOVE the game!

I am so damned depressed right now, it hurts. It's like a giant "FUNK" has settled over me, and I don't know what to do in order to shake it. I've been waiting for THIS election, for years now. How will the Republicans overcome being associated with a President whose policies have driven his approval ratings through the floor...and how the Democrats will overcome...being Democrats.

Man, WHAT a BATTLE! What a contest! What a damned flop. I don't like McCain. I don't like Obama. Just what in the hell am I supposed to do now???

NEWS FLASH...RUSSIA INVADES GEORGIA!

2008-08-08T17:34:00.005-05:00

What I really want to know is how many people were worried about the supply of Peaches when they saw this headline!

Death Of Alexander Solzhenitsyn

2008-08-05T14:08:00.004-05:00

Back in the days when I was a young Greenwood Lad, I had an English teacher that took some interest in my work and my reading habits (double edged sword here as it was this very English teacher that I had the MOST PROBLEMS with later on). In any case, she did wonders for me in the literature arena, including introducing me to the works of both Curt Vonnegut, and Alexander Solzhenitsyn.

It is with deep sadness that Alexander has passed on - a life well lived, and chronicled, throughout the pages and pages he created. Will we again see the likes of someone so dedicated to dishing out the truth despite personal hardship? Possible...but sadly, doubtful.

Solzhenitsyn lead a fascinating life. From being a decorated soldier, to time in the gulag, being stripped of his Soviet citizenship, and returning home to the motherland as a national hero, he lived it all. CLICK HERE to see the video from the BBC.

What the Hell Happened?

2008-07-29T11:28:00.005-05:00

I'll say it up front - it's been years since I've been a fan of the "Springfield News-Leader." Back before it was swallowed up by media giant Gannett, they actually used to publish news worth reading from around the Ozarks. In my opinion, though it's gotten "prettier" over the past few years, it's mostly fluff and mindless dribble.

Now, it's smaller...or at least appears to be. I picked up today's paper for the first time in probably 2 months...and it's about the size of some of the other tabloids around town. Hmmm...I'll bet the subscription price didn't go down despite the savings a smaller layout provides. If I subscribed, I would be plenty ticked.

One gold nugget however was Sarah Overstreet's column on North & South Springfield. I agree with her, there is a distinct difference in North / South attitudes in town, and there always has been for as long as I can remember. Maybe it's the lack of police service to the area versus south side calls, maybe it's the resurgence of commerce in the area (that Wal-Mart on Kearney & Glenstone is damned cool), maybe it's the continual lack of neglect for that part of town by our city father's. Sarah is right...and about damned time someone said so.

Scott McClellan Breaks The Silence

2008-05-28T16:27:00.005-05:00

Former White House Press Secretary Scott McClellan is the winner of today's "News that's Not News" category. He alleges that President Bush relied on an "aggressive political propaganda campaign" to initiate the Iraq war, instead of telling the truth.

Duh!

While I've got to give kudos to Mr. McClellan for speaking his mind, he's only telling what many of us knew all along. Let's just be frank here. I knew before Bush was Inaugurated that we would be going to war in Iraq, and that was fine. Just be honest, say you're going to kick some Hussein Butt for trying to kill your father, and America would have been fine. Hell, we love to get even...and truth be told, if he had been that honest, it probably would have been one of the most POPULAR wars in history!

Now of course, you can't blame McClellan for not speaking his mind...after all, his job was to make lemonade out of lemons, not tell the President the recipe he should use to make the lemonade in the first place.

There is supposed to to be a press conference tomorrow to clear the air. Now we'll see just exactly how much pressure is exerted on the former talking head by the White House. Will he stick with his guns, or soften his tone.

We'll wait and see.

Square Deal

2008-05-06T10:25:00.003-05:00

Springfield's Park Central Square. You have to admit, it was a great idea in theory - compete against the new Battlefield Mall by turning this into a "pedestrian shopping zone" with no through traffic allowed.

Problem is, when the city father's made this decision, they listened to NONE of the businesses they were trying to help. Everyone from lawyers, to merchants, jewelers, to 5 and dime shops that had been downtown for years told the city this was a BAD idea. Don't close the traffic, they said, and for the love of goodness, don't take away the parking to make some damned silly fountain.

No one listened.

Once again, the city fathers hold the growth and future of downtown in their hands, which is a scary enough thought in itself. Hopefully, the right thing will be done. Listen to those most directly affected, and don't muck it up this time!

Ramblings...

2008-05-05T17:14:00.006-05:00

Blah. That's how I feel right now, just Blah. I have too much on my mind - some things more important than others of course, but they're there just the same. In no particular order:

Damn, this weather is nice.
I don't like any of the Presidential candidates.
Are we going to war with Iran as well?
Why are there people whose sole purpose in life is to make mine a living hell?
I need to check the air in my tires.
How much will I get from my stimulus package?
Can I pay all of my bills this month?
Wish I had shaved this morning.
I have this pit in my stomach...what's up with that?
My boss is a moron.
My boss is a mo...ooops, already got that one.
Need to flip that light socket sometime this week.
I want a set of patio furniture for my deck.
A dog would be nice too.
How much longer before I have to get a part time job with gas and food prices going up?
I know I've forgotten something...just can't remember what.
The boss thing...ditto...again.
I enjoyed that Star Wars movie last night, more than I thought I would.

Un-Inspired

2008-04-28T14:00:00.006-05:00

I often gripe about apathy of one sort or another and I'm sure that members of my family and friends get tired of my occasional diatribes on the inactions of others. Well, I guess I have been struck by the apathy bug myself, since it's been since DECEMBER since I've written. But then again, I haven't exactly had emails banging down my box demanding my return...so figure that one out for yourself.

Anyways, in many ways, it's been a "blah" year and I just didn't care. My boss is an ego-maniac who blames having to go pee on someone else, we have the 3-stooges running for the highest office in the land, gas is approaching $4 a gallon, you can only buy 4-bags of rice at your local Sam's Club, and new housing has dropped for the worse in more than 16-years.

Friends, you might have found the above blog entry a little on the depressing side. For that, my sincerest apologies. However, let me show you that indeed there is still light at the end of the tunnel...when things are looking their worst, keep in the back of your mind that no matter what happens, Matt Blunt still is not running for a second-term as Governor.

Welcome Back Old Friend, You Have Been Missed!

2007-12-03T14:44:00.000-06:00

Click here to read about Don Imus' return: http://www.rfdtv.com/Press/Releases/HTML/Don_Imus_Returns.asp

Christmas, Christmas, Christmas!

2007-11-29T13:26:00.000-06:00

Once again, I am offended. Seems to be happening a lot lately, doesn't it? Today, I was reading about the Christmas Tree that was taken down at MSU due to what some call "cultural insensitivity." Yet the groups that complained, had been invited to place their own symbols and decorations along with the tree, but they declined to do so out of fear of theft. So now the tree is down, and the grinch has won another battle.

Let me say...I am pissed. Pissed beyond belief. I remember in school (which was NOT in the stone age like some believe), we would have a Christmas Program, sing Christmas Carols in the halls, be off for Christmas Break, and when we would see someone else, we would wish them a Merry Christmas...not this Happy Holiday's crap that we are having forced upon us by a slim minority. Wishing someone Merry Christmas is not an insult - never was - never will be.

There is a special spirit that seems to flow with Christmas. People are kinder, gentler than usual. We think more about families and children. We do the good works that we should be doing all year long but don't find time for. We contact those who have fallen out of sight due to the busyness of everyday life. We reflect, are thankful, count our blessings, and try to help others. Man, that's hardcore when you think about it. One little holiday that can do so much, just by it's spirit. Too bad the Christmas season isn't around all year long - think of how much better things would be if it were.

I am not a religious nut, nor do I hold my church membership at the mega church near Ozark - the one I laughingly dub "Six Flags over Jesus." BUT...when I see you, this is your warning. I will STILL wish you a Merry Christmas. If you're offended...too bad, get over it.

Ramblings...Part I

2007-11-26T12:51:00.000-06:00

Heck of a good weekend if you are a college football fan. Mizzu kicked some Jayhawk rear and are on board for the national championships. I despise KU. Almost everyone I've met from there has an attitude. Nice to see the smirk wiped off their faces. Turning Westward to the land of the Cornhuskers, Bill Callahan and his merry band of idiots were fired from Nebraska and it looks like AD Tommy O will be restoring order in Lincoln. About time.

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It's better the 2nd time around for shock jock Don Imus, who will be returning to the airwaves in December. I'm not sure if any Springfield radio station has signed on to carry him - hopefully someone will. But never fear, if you get RFD-TV, his show is being simulcast there. This takes the struggling little network and turns into a much more attractive buy for agencies. Lets face it, like Imus or not, he generated the coveted dollar that is so wanted by the majority of today's media outlets. He did NOTHING that could surprise anyone...shock was his job, and he does a damned good job of it. Welcome back Imus, you HAVE been missed!

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After a few fleeting moments of watching "Meet the Press" yesterday, I've determined that host Tim Russert is nothing more than a fat pant-load. This is a man who sponged life and ratings success off of Don Imus, yet did nothing to stop the blood flow when Imus was down and out. Russert was a frequent guest of the show...and with it's return, I hope he's placed on the list of "Lip Service Wack Jobs" that will never EVER be allowed on the ratings, revenue, and career making show that belongs to Imus. There are too damned many fake people who will tell you what you want to hear. I thought more of Tim Russert. But I think his time covering the slime in Washington has rubbed off on him.

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Speaking of slime, Gov. Matt Blunt topped my "Top Turkey" list for this Thanksgiving. Talk about adding insult to injury, I'm sure some of those people that were receiving dinner at the Victory Mission were put there due to the "Boy-Blunder's" change in medicaid laws. Now, they get his smiling face serving food to them? Nice, please...hit me again. Does he really think he has a chance of winning round 2? If not, I've also heard the nasty rumor that his name is being pitched for a possible Vice Presidential candidate slot. Oh God, please...deliver me.

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Democrats, this will be our election to loose. Please, oh please, don't do something stupid...again...like usually happens.

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Whew. I feel SO much better now!

No "Spirit" In Springfield - Oh How I Miss Thee

2007-11-19T12:24:00.000-06:00

As many of you good readers know, I've never been a slave to fashion or popular ideas. I like what I like, and I know what I like.

We have some great sports here in town, including the Cardinals. Basketball is well represented, and the football at MSU is better than it's been in YEARS. World Class Tennis and all kinds of programs for the kids. Yes, for the most part, we are a sports lovin' town. We like our football with KC, and baseball with St. Louis, and we follow with a passion. But, I for one, see a little hole in our semi-pro world of Springfield. Yes, I miss the "Spirt."

Our short lived hockey team the Springfield Spirit was fun to watch. No, it wasn't a Blue's game, but there was some good stick action and the occasional fight, plus the dedication of the few but die hard fans. Yes, I miss the Spirt - while good, watching MSU just isn't the same.

Remember the Colonial!!

2007-11-15T14:13:00.000-06:00

As I read the "Voices" section of the News-Leader today, I became a man of mixed emotions. I'm thrilled at the idea that something creative might actually be done in the Heer's building. Like the majority of people 30 and over who grew up in Springfield, I spent so much time in the Heer's building as a kid, I can remember it like yesterday. I would love to walk around in it again, something familiar, something from my past, something...that would give back to the city once again and be a source of pride.

Then there's the other part. The pissed off part. The "damn those foolish idiots" part. Of course we don't have any old historic hotels because the wisdom of the "city fathers" in their rush to obliterate the past and become the "Midwestern Mecca of Moderns" was that it was better to have parking lots than old buildings, and they were torn down! We used to have some beautiful hotels in this town. Anyone remember the Colonial? Hello??? Anybody home? Here's what a true historic hotel looked like on one of those postcards with the fancy writing, thanks to a photo from the Missouri State Archives: Missouri State University gets double damning in my book for what happened to that grand old lady. They could have turned it, like the Kentwood, into student housing. Nope. They could have created a state of the art hotel management program, with a living, working hotel as it's training grounds. Nope. To hell with it said the officials...we'll let it fall into such disrepair that the only thing that CAN be done with it is tear it down. Then, we'll add another parking lot and charge to park there.

Yes to Heer's. It's a great idea, and I'll look forward to spending a weekend there. Damn you MSU and the City of Springfield, for letting our heritage be torn away from us in the first place!

No Snacks For You!!!!

2007-11-12T14:04:00.000-06:00

Today's lead article by Wes Johnson in the Springfield News-Leader left a bad taste in MY mouth. It follows the owners of a snack bar located in the hallowed basement halls of the Greene County Courthouse.

Click here to read the story: http://springfieldnews-leader.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20071112/NEWS01/711120356

Let me say this up front. Yes, courthouse workers need someplace close by to eat. I'm not against ANYONE having a lunch break for goodness sakes...if you've ever met me, one of the first things you'll notice is that I've done a good job at not missing too many meals over the years. My problem has to do with a private, for-profit business being located in the basement of a county building. This is supposed to be a place where county officials are housed, business is conducted, taxes are assessed and collected - a place where the workings of government slowly grind forward. It is a building of the people, by the people, and for the people...and it should not be a place for individuals to make a profit. Should the county get into the food service business? In my opinion, no. Close the snack shop and make another office.

Next time the county decides they need to build more offices, I hope the powers that be grab a cup of coffee down in the Courthouse Snack Bar, and think long and hard...about how stupid they will look to the rest of us. Egg on your face?? Only $1.23 in the basement...

Gettin' Spanked - Not Once, But Twice

2007-11-08T11:09:00.000-06:00

Poor Hal Higdon. If anyone is having a bad week, it's the not-so-new President of OTC. First, voters in Tuesday's elections tell the growing school that while their programs are valued, they are not valued enough for added taxes. A school that started out so small, and has accomplished so many BIG things during it's short life, Ozarks Technical Community College will now have to continue turning away students, raise tuition, and hold on additional staffing for the time being.

If that wasn't bad enough, salt was poured on the wound when it became public knowledge that OTC had lost a bid for the former Social Security Office near Police Headquarters, to none other than the Rev. Larry Rice - a man whom both the City of Springfield, and the City of St. Louis would loved to see sucked into a funnel cloud, never to be heard from again. No one wants the homeless, the disadvantaged, and the down on their luck people in their back yard. Springfield city leaders are considering different places for the disenfranchised to go - possibly moving them out of the Commercial Street area to another location where they are "not as visible" to the general public. I've never met him, but I like Larry Rice, and I admire his 35 years of work on behalf of those who don't have anyone else to turn to. Except by the Grace of God, we could be just a paycheck or two from being in that situation.

Back to OTC and poor Dr. Higdon. I would like to give some words of advice and comfort to him: Dr. Hal, we don't hate you or your school. We are proud that OTC has been able to accomplish so much, and we see a bright, shining future ahead. We do, however, hate taxes. Springfield's School Board knows that lesson better than almost ANY institution in town. Take a big page from their play-book. Get a focused message together. What will the money do, how will it benefit the kids, and why should I fork over an extra $22 per year in taxes for my $100,000 home for their benefit? Once you've got the message, condense it into easy to read graphic boards, sound bytes for tv, radio, and newspapers, and above all, make sure that a 4th grader could understand it. Once that is done, drive that message home to EVERYONE. Saturate the area and market it heavily. You'll get a win next time around.

Mixing the Old With the New

2007-11-04T21:02:00.000-06:00

Tomorrow begins the great odyssey. My new boss starts work, which always means change, change, and more change. Now, if the boss looked like this, it would help a great deal.

Ahhhhh, but no such luck. We went out to dinner tonight, and he seems like a nice enough guy. Of course, he will do things different, which isn't a bad thing. But, it will be tough seeing him call the shots instead of me.

Well, I've got to think there is a lot to learn from him. Hopefully he will be a good teacher and all will end up well. I don't know, but I don't think he'll be around too long. He's got a long resume with some short tenure. Guess we'll wait and see. Again, I'm just thankful to God that I've got a job.

Just Leave It Alone!!

2007-11-04T11:23:00.000-06:00

Let me just get this out in the open...I hate daylight savings time. I've never liked it, and probably will only when I'm older and need the extra daylight. I remember as a kid, my bedtime would be around 7:30 at night, and it was still "blue" outside. Laying in my bed, I would hear the other kids playing, but nooo..bed time for me.

Granted, I'll give the devil his due. Each household will save a small amount of money due to springing forward earlier, and falling backward later in the year. But the big benefit is when all of that savings is put together - hundreds of millions of dollars a year are saved nationwide. That can go a LONG way to help fund research into other energy sources.

But I still wish they would just leave it alone. Changes make my alarm clock, angry...very angry, and take my word for it, you won't like him when he's angry!

Death of A Legend

2007-10-29T14:47:00.000-05:00

For as long as I can remember, there have been constants in Country Music. The shrill sounds of Hank Williams, smooth serenades from Jim Reeves, stories spun from the mouth's of masters, and the "Thin Man from West Plains," Porter Wagoner.

Porter died last night in a Nashville hospice from lung cancer. I met him one time - here in Springfield. His music was simple, filled with death and lyrical twists that sometimes made you sit back, suck in some air, and explain; "Really!"

He had many fans here, in his hometown of West Plains, and newer fans still, after this year's release of "Wagonmaster" which was a work of love by Marty Stewart, and lauded by many as a comeback album. Porter received great recognition and critical acclaim from it - possibly some of his best work came at the end. I wish I would have interviewed him.

The Flame Flickers...

2007-10-26T17:18:00.001-05:00

A dream partially died today.

For the past few months, I've been working to prove to my superiors that I'm worthy of a promotion. The job came open, I ran as hard as I could, and today, I was told that I did not get it, someone from outside the company was being brought in.

I am thankful that I still have a job, and for everything that I have been blessed with.

Monday, will be better.

Reflections From a Steamy Sink

2007-10-26T11:28:00.000-05:00

Have you ever wondered what people see when they look at you? What are those first thoughts that cross their minds when you round a corner in the hallway, or when you come up in conversation among your circle of friends? Are you afraid to let them see the "real you" and because of that, you hide behind a mask?

I do.

Last night, I was drawing water in the sink for a nice hot shave - one of the few treats I give myself from time to time. As the sink finished filling, I started looking at myself through the steam, and I was not pleased. Oh, I appear to be a nice enough guy, a little "grizzled" around the edges, much heavier than I think I should be. Where did those lines come from? Look at that gray...even white hairs starting to appear. My eyes though, bothered me the most. Blank, soul-less, no twinkle.

Why can't I show the inner soul to the outside world? The heart is there, the care is there, helping others is there, but it's stone faced, sometimes with a smile, sometimes not. Have I become THAT jaded? Have I lost it? Am I turning the corner from being in idealist into an apathetic jerk? Hmmm...lots to think about and decide. Why should I be afraid to show the soul? After all, we'll all be dead in a hundred years, what will it matter then? What matters is what I do now, while I have the opportunity.

As the water swirled down the drain, I thought to myself..." that's one of the best shaves I've ever had."

Return From The Dead - Episode II

2007-08-16T22:52:00.001-05:00

Hours can turn into days, then weeks, and finally months if you don't pay attention. Once again, I've become engrossed in my every day life, my family, and trying to achieve that american dream. It seems like I'm very close to making career goals become "career gold." After years and years of hard work in my profession, it's coming close...the payoff. "Stay awake boy, don't let the brass ring slip past you" says the little voice in my head when I think about even easing up for just a minute or so. But damn, in the process, you can nearly kill yourself preparing for it!

So, it's good to be back in the land of Springberg's writers again. I've started reading some of our local blogs again, and see that talent abounds here in the Queen City - talent, has NEVER been in a shortage around here. It's nice to know, some things never change. Our red light camera seems to be functioning just fine, and National and Battlefield is probably now the safest intersection around town. It's getting to the end of summertime, and it's hot as hell here. The Simpson's movie has come and gone, thank GOODNESS, and the little ankle biters are about to start school. Lets hope none of them get squashed in traffic.

Runnin' on Empty

2007-05-11T11:35:00.000-05:00

Before I start this little rant, I will agree, the United States has enjoyed some of the lowest gas prices in the world. When I was in the UK in 2001 / 2002, gas came out to $5 a gallon then. We have been lucky...sort of. Oil companies are still making HUGE profits at the expense of the public. Duh. That's really no news flash. Now, I'm all for a business making a buck, after all, that's why we work - to make the money to live. But the sheer greed of these large corporations is outrageous. Take Exxon for example - this blurb courtesy of the Washington Post:

Exxon Mobil, the world's biggest oil company, said profit climbed 10 percent to a first-quarter record after higher gasoline and diesel prices increased refining profit. Profit rose to $9.28 billion from $8.4 billion in the comparable period a year earlier, the Irving, Tex., company said in a statement yesterday. Revenue fell 2 percent, to $87.2 billion.

When the price at the pump goes up so much, and our paychecks don't change to meet that need, we're all in trouble. $3.09 a gallon is something we should ALL be mad about.

Another Freaky Twist in the Virginia Tech Shootings

2007-04-18T16:13:00.000-05:00

The twisted life of Virginia Tech shooter Cho Seung-Hi takes a huge twist. Just after 4pm today, it was announced that during the time between the first & second shooting rampage, Cho put togher and mailed a package to NBC News in New York. Read the Associated Press story here: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070418/ap_on_re_us/virginia_tech_shooting Yeah...talk about messed up! So, what do you think...did NBC make copies of the materials while waiting for the State Police to pick up the originals?

How Can It Happen

2007-04-17T13:17:00.000-05:00

Since the news broke yesterday about Virginia Tech, I've been wrestling and wrangling in my head about how something like this could happen. What motivates someone to go anywhere and blow away 30 some people. I can't process it...I just can't.

I'm not THAT old of a guy - 34 in November. But in the not too distant past of my youth, things were different. There is a disconnect in American society that is so wrong, so out of whack, that something like this happens. Case in point...my high school days. When you walked the halls, all the guys had a pocket knife - that was just the thing. You're from the Midwest, you have a pocket knife. No big deal. Hell, you would get it out and compare with friends on who had the baddest one around.

Walk out in the parking lot after school, especially during hunting season and you would see trucks parked, with gun racks, and guns IN the racks. Standard fare. Guns were brought on campus, and yes once again, no big deal.

So that leaves me to believe in what I call the "Great American Disconnect." That certain "something" that has gone wrong with our country as a whole, and I don't know what it is. Video games? TV & movie violence? Not enough stay at home parents? A broken school and social service system? Taking God out of schools? Materialism? Racism? Terrorism? Fanaticism? A complete mind change in the general populace that doesn't recognize today's youth are the most IMPORTANT generation and that to make them great leaders, you've got to give a damn? Divorce? What???? Just what is the magic answer?

I don't know, and I can't understand...

Virginia Tech - An Interesting Twist

2007-04-17T11:29:00.000-05:00

Again, the latest from the Associated Press:

SEOUL, South Korea South Korea's Foreign Ministry says the country's "in shock beyond description" after learning the Virginia Tech shooter is a South Korean native.

The gunman has been identified as 23-year-old Cho Seung-hui (joh sung-wee). A ministry official says he's been in the U-S since 1992.A foreign ministry spokesman says South Korean diplomats are traveling to Virginia Tech.

Face of A Monster - Virginia Tech Shooter Revealed

2007-04-17T10:35:00.000-05:00

From the Associated Press:

Cho Seung-Hui, 23, identified as killer in Virginia Tech massacre

written April 17, 2007

BLACKSBURG, Virginia (AP) _ A Virginia Tech senior from South Korea was behind the massacre of at least 30 people locked inside a campus building in the deadliest shooting rampage in modern United States history, the university said Tuesday.

The Virginia Tech Police Department identified him as Cho Seung-Hui, 23, a senior in the English department.

The bloodbath ended with the gunman's suicide, bringing the death toll from two separate shootings _ first at a dorm, then in a classroom building _ to 33 and stamping the campus in the picturesque Blue Ridge Mountains with unspeakable tragedy.

The Virginia State Police say ballistics tests show one of the guns found after a deadly shooting at Virginia Tech was used in both shootings, at the doom at the classroom building.

Virginia State Police say ballistics tests show one of the guns found after the deadly shooting was used in both shootings, at a dorm and at a classroom building.

Outrage Over Imus' Overblown

2007-04-10T16:26:00.000-05:00

Let me give you a little education into the world of Radio because the part that the public doesn't see is brutal, and sometimes very ugly. While a broadcaster genuinely enjoys the audience and interacting with them, they are always looking for the next bit, the next thing that will keep them ahead and in front of their competition.

Don Imus is a master at this cat 'n mouse game and has BEEN a master for over 30 years. From the bits of "John Cardinal O'Connor" to "Go Baby, Go" with the Clinton's, to the now famous "Nappy Headed Basketball Ho's" Imus has this knack for reaching into his bag of political-incorrectness and throwing it in our face.

Why are you surprised at that? Ron Davis on his blog "CHATTER" has some excellent points which I agree with. You can read his post here: http://chatterbyrondavis.blogspot.com/
Imus mixes politics with pleasure, and blends being a crass old grouchy bastard with a persona that can make authors best sellers, and help politicians win elections. No doubt the man has influence. No doubt he regrets being busted like he has.

But the outrage is outrageous. There is such a double standard in America that it's almost laughable. Lets look at who is throwing stones...the NAACP - an organization for COLORED people? Isn't that a little racist? What about Black Entertainment Television? Last time I checked, there is NO White Entertainment Television. Are you catching on here?

Yes, I know the examples I've given are extreme one's, but they are pretty good at driving home the point. There is "acceptable" or "PC" racism and then politically-incorrect racism. In the end, Imus will be judged...by his listeners, and his advertisers.

And I agree with Ron, a Dark Day for the world of free speech.

I'm Your Daddy!

2007-04-10T15:26:00.001-05:00

Ahh yes, the great American post-mortem of the life of Anna Nicole Smith continues today with a twist. It turns out that photo boy Larry Birkhead indeed slipped it to the now dead playmate, and indeed IS Dannielynn's daddy.

And what a rich daddy he will be!

You know that Anna's estate will take care of the little girl. Of course, there will be something used to raise her in the manner she would have been accustomed to if her mother had lived. So there you have it...Birkhead in the end, gets the girl and Howard K. Stern looses his meal ticket.

Does this really surprise you? Look, anytime the LAWYER starts to back off, well, you know there's got to be a reason. Ahhhh the drama!

**Photo of Larry Birkhead courtesy of CNN.com**

The End of Empire

2007-04-09T12:29:00.000-05:00

It was an empire at one time...stores from here to Ft. Scott, Kansas. Oklahoma throughout Southwest Missouri. You could hardly toss a stone, without hitting a Consumers Markets. Remember the jingle? "Consumers, Consumers, the BEST supermarket under the Ozarks skies." Well, thank God I just type on here, and not sing...everyone in the blog sphere would be trying to get me to go away again!

Anyway, the Consumers empire ended years ago, but Clarence & Edna Wheeler kept their profile low, and their check books open wide to area organizations. Sadly, Edna passed away Saturday, March 31st. She was a true lady in every sense of the word. Strange...death always seems to go in 3's...Edna Wheeler, John Stone...and I've not found the last one yet.

Back to my story...I remember going over to the Wheeler's home many times as a kid. You wouldn't KNOW they had money...until you got to their home. HUGE! Long brick, built in two different wings in Southern Hills. The Wheeler's had a poodle named Bubbles. Actually, I think there were several "Bubbles" in my lifetime. Long story short, not only did they give of their hearts to this community, rub elbows with the most influential of our town, they were perfectly great to a little boy, who was amazed at their kindness, and their reality, and to this day, I have never forgotten them.

Consumers empire is finally gone...and there will never again be two people like Clarence & Edna Wheeler...and it's a damned shame.

Coming Up For A Little Air

2007-03-11T03:09:00.000-05:00

It's been well over a month since I last posted. No, I hadn't thought I'd be gone so long, but, just shove that under the category of sh** happens.

It's just after 3am and the house is quiet now - no tv, no telephone, no radio. All are sleeping but me. These days, quiet time comes few and far between. Every day, I got to work, and I work hard, busting my rear end to make a difference. In doing so, I end up working hours that no sane man or woman would put in, and myself and my family are the ones that suffer for it.

Just before sitting down to type this, I cracked the bedroom door open, snuck into my little man's bedroom, and just watched him sleep. He's so little, but getting so big so fast. This time last year, he was still fresh from the womb, and now he's walking, running, and has almost a full head of teeth. His blue blanket softly moved up and down with his breathing as he slept, dreaming I suppose of more toys, his mama, his brother and me, and wondering in his own little way what tomorrow will bring. He's a happy boy, full of love, and I thank God everyday for it.

Doing what I can to make those little dreams come true is my biggest responsibility, and at times, it is the weight of the world times 12. No, I don't worry. You can't worry about the things you can't control, but to a degree, you can try to manage the other things. I am at a big crossroads in my career and that requires some serious thought. One thing I know for sure, that little boy is worth it.

So, it's nice to come out of seclusion for a bit of air. I'll try not to stay gone so long next time.

Ward Connerly: How A California Businessman Could Change Missouri Education

2007-01-26T15:08:00.000-06:00

He's a little known name in Missouri, but in the coming months, Ward Connerly could spark one of the hottest debates since the Civil Rights movement - by changing the way your child applies to college. Connerly, who served 12 years on the Board of Regents of the University of California was the driving force behind California's Proposition 209, that was approved by voters in 1996.

Prop. 209 amended California's constitution, prohibiting to prohibit public institutions from discriminating on the basis of race, sex, or ethnicity. Last year, Michigan voters enacted similar legislation, and now Connerly intends to take this measure to other states that could include: Arizona, Colorado, Missouri, Nebraska, Nevada, Oregon, South Dakota, Utah and Wyoming. Next month, it is expected that he will announce which states he has chosen.

RESOURCES:
* Ward Connerly bio information: http://www.acri.org/people/
* New York Times Article: http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/26/education/26affirm.html
* Prop 209 from Answers.com: http://www.answers.com/topic/california-proposition-209

Ice & Reflections

2007-01-25T11:13:00.000-06:00

I've heard it said by different folks that it's odd the first time you switch rolls with your parents, and you become the care giver instead of the recipient. Well, the validity of that statement didn't sink in until our recent ice storm. My house was without power for only 48-hours, but my mom's was down until last night and she's been staying with me during that time.

I have been very blessed. Unlike some kids, my mom and I have always been close, but do to a hectic work schedule, a growing family of my own, and everything else under the sun, we haven't spent a lot of time together in the past few years. It was good to have her there. But, the reversal of rolls has left me a little speechless. I want to be in denial that time is marching on, that we are all getting older, and that someday, I probably won't have her around anymore. That thought makes me so sad, I don't even know how to describe it.

But with every package, there's more than just the wrapper. This has been my wake up call, that I am happy to share with you. Enjoy the moment. Make as many of them as you can as often as you can, because someday, you won't be able to make any more.

And Then There Were Four...

2007-01-02T12:16:00.000-06:00

With the death of President Ford, my list of "Top 5 People I Want to Interview" dropped to 4. There were years where I thought Gerald Ford's name should be placed with that of Benedict Arnold and every other traitor who sold his country out. Time passes, and it seems for the most part, to show the good decisions for what they really are.

I was wrong.

So, what fascinated me with the 38th President of the United States? Simple. President Ford had this moment of clarity that cut through time and prevailing politics of the day and with the wave of a pen, pardoned his disgraced predecessor. America was mad. Americans felt there was no faith left in government...and, Americans owe Gerald Ford a debt of thanks, and a sincere apology. We were all wrong and because of your sacrifice, we were able to move on as a nation. While I've often thought Jimmy Carter was a great leader as well, I would like to have seen what kind of mark would have been made by 4 more years of a Ford White House.

As for the remaining 4 that I want to sit down face to face with, they are as follows, in order:

4. Bill Clinton
3. Bill Gates
2. Mikhail Gorbachev
1. Jimmy Carter

2006 Goes Down With the Ship

2007-01-01T14:08:00.000-06:00

So much blogging that I have wanted to do over the past few days, but, just not enough time on the planet to be able to squeeze it in. Really, it seems like that's just how things go with me anymore. If there were 30 hours in a day, some jackass would figure out how to clutter THOSE hours up as well.

Anyway, 2006 had not been the best year for me. It was filled with a few extreme highs but more lows and low blows than anyone should have to absorb. Yes, 2006 needed to go, and I thought it should go out in style. So, what better way to do that, then to spend New Year's Eve on the Titanic in Branson.

The weather was cold, the museum warm and inviting, and the character actors that were throughout made the whole experience. Owners John and Mary Joslyn have truly made what could have been another stuffy museum into a first-rate attraction. At midnight, rockets fired from the ship and when the smoke cleared, my disappointing 2006 had also vanished into that cold night. Make plans to be there New Year's '07. I'm sure they will make it even better.

Here is their website in case you would like to visit it:
http://www.titanicbranson.com/

From Me, To You...

2006-12-25T03:17:00.000-06:00

Christmas Fun for the Kids & Some Personal Thoughs

2006-12-23T15:11:00.000-06:00

This Christmas is going to be extra special for me, as it is going to be the first one for my little boy, Jacob. Yes, I became a daddy in January this year, and I've got to say, being a daddy has been the BEST experience in my entire life! While I've always liked kids, I never thought having one would change me so much.

My little man has done more good for me than he will ever know. Along with making me a kinder, more understanding person, he has managed to banish the Grinch and return Christmas spirit to my soul that has been missing since my parents divorce when I was 11. I'm looking forward to all the festivities, and starting a few of my own.
If you have children that are still of the Santa age, you'll get a kick out of this. Every year for over 50 years, NORAD (the North American Aerospace Defense Command) had tracked Santa. It started via radio, and has now moved to the Internet. Just click the link to the website and this might become one of your families favorite new Christmas traditions! Here it is:

http://www.noradsanta.org/en/default.php

Did I Miss Something?

2006-12-23T14:50:00.000-06:00

I've been working a lot lately, traveling around the state, etc... but, I didn't think I was this out of touch with reality. Taken from the Department of Homeland Security website @

http://www.dhs.gov/xinfoshare/programs/Copy_of_press_release_0046.shtm

Either I've been living under a rock, or, this is taken so NOT SERIOUSLY by the american public and the meida that no one gives a damn anymore:

Current Threat Level

December 20, 2006

The United States government national threat level is at Code Yellow, or Elevated.
The threat level for all domestic and international flights is at Code Orange or High; banning most liquids, aerosols and gels in carry-on baggage.
The Transportation Security Administration (TSA) has instituted 3-1-1 for Carry-ons:

3 ounce or smaller containers of liquid or gel
1 quart-size, clear plastic, zip-top bag holding 3 ounce or smaller containers
1 bag per traveler placed in the security bin

Recommended Activities

All Americans, including those traveling in the transportation systems, should continue to be vigilant, take notice of their surroundings, and report suspicious items or activities to local authorities immediately.

Everybody should establish an emergency preparedness kit as well as a communications plan for themselves and their family, and stay informed about what to do during an emergency situation.

Trading "The Hammer" For A Pen

2006-12-23T14:09:00.000-06:00

Well, I think I've seen it all now. The New York Times had an article the other day about former Texas Congressman Tom Delay and his attempt to return to the national stage as a power broker through his blog. tomdelay.com is the address in case you're interested in a half-amusing fictional read.

Yes good friends, it takes all kinds of us to make up the world of the blogger, including single celled pond scum like Delay. Newt Gingrich can't be far behind...

The Next President of the United States - It's His to Loose

2006-12-18T13:06:00.000-06:00

I got a chuckle over the weekend watching the various polls and features come in with who the "heavies" are for the next presidential election cycle. But lets face it, while the Democrats won big this year, the Grand Old Party has plenty of big names to gun for the top office in the land. But head and shoulders above all stands Sen. John McCain and both parties should agree, this is HIS election to loose.

McCain has masterfully changed his public persona from a member of the "Keeting 5" to respected, and outspoken statesmen that can move mountains in his party. While he has been a major pain in the side to the Bush 43's Administration, that could very well prove to be one of his biggest campaign points. "Hi, I'm John McCain, and I'm NOT George Bush!" Now that would be one heck of a campaign slogan. But...it could get even better.

McCain, the former POW, the son of two Navy Admirals, solder, patriot, ranking Republican member of the powerful Senate Armed Services committee will bring and end to this quagmire in Iraq with his secret weapon. Former General of the Joint Chief's of Staff Colin Powell, who also distanced himself as Secretary of State from the Bush Administration and finally, to avoid getting the stink on him, resigned his cabinet post. If you think a McCain for President campaign would rock the house, just add the General and see what you get...a train that almost can't be stopped.

Hmmmm...catching a theme here? Republicans who are not BUSH Republicans have a great chance. To be honest, that's the campaign the Democrats need to be running..."We're NOT George Bush."

Speaking of Democrats, just who will lead the charge? You think the answer is obvious, but believe me, it's a question that needs to sink past skin deep. Here's the short list of what we have in our stable:

Hillary - - - Half love her, half hate her. Bad choice.
Obama - - -Yeah he's a rising star, but he's African American and just to be honest with you, I don't think our country is mature enough in it's makeup to take the step and elect him because of that. So many say they are not racist but behind the curtain of the ballot box, that's not true. Also, his lack of international experience doesn't help. Wait another 20 years, and he's gold.
Gore - - - - Lockbox this guy for another 10 years. Too many bad vibes.
Kerry - - - -MUZZLE!! MUZZLE!!
Edwards - -Still too wet behind the ears. Give him another 4 and he'll smash in the door.

So, we're out of the running...

Any good suggestions should be sent to the chair of the Democrat Party, Howard Dean. Oh God...we are SO HOSED!!!!

Spaciously Absent or I Should've Gone Fishing!

2006-12-13T15:43:00.000-06:00

Every once in a while, it seems like I hit a dry spell. I guess we all go through them from time to time. Days and dates, and obligations, and people can seem to blur together. That's been this past week for me. I think I'll blame it on the holidays!

I love fishing. Can't get enough of it actually. It acts kind of like a counter balance to the hectic portion of my life. I don't care if I catch anything or not, it is soothing to the soul. Come to think of it, that sounds pretty good. Now, where's my rod n reel...

Tacky? Yes. Funny? I'm STILL Laughing!

2006-12-07T23:54:00.000-06:00

I love things that make me think. When it's time for me to relax, I'll watch television or more likely, stick my nose in a good book. But my television consists of the History Channel and anything political I can ingest. Books range from Ozarks Folklore, to humor, to history to current events, to biographies and autobiographies, to politics. Yes, I'm a heavy reader.

However, I LOVE funny stuff. Good funny stuff. Stuff that will make you pee your pants because you're laughing so hard. Dear friends, have I got a treat for you! Sit back, turn up your speakers, click on the link below, and prepare to laugh so hard, you'll almost pee your pants, cross your eyes, and forget your name for 30 minutes! Thanks for sending this to me, Colonel. You made my day!

http://www.americanangst.com/dingfries.html

Making this even funnier, I have never actually seen a Burger King this well kept!

It's Official: Baker Report Says "Stay the Course" is..Well, You Know...Full of You Know What!

2006-12-06T19:23:00.000-06:00

After 9 months of work, the bi-partisan Baker Report was released to the public today. In a nutshell, it says that the United States needs to do something different where Iraq is concerned.

Due to the wonders of the internet, all of us geopolitical junkies can download the report, read it, and draw our own conclusions. I encourage all of you to do so, and then call your respective Senators and Congressmen. Hopefully, the outcry will bring this national tragedy to a close once and for all and we can get our men and women in uniform back home.

You can download your copy of the report from this link:
http://www.usip.org/isg/iraq_study_group_report/report/1206/index.html

Good Luck to a Great Guy

2006-12-06T11:19:00.001-06:00

I've been halfway around the world and I've seen a lot of sights, but, each day reminds me just how lucky I am to live here in the Ozarks. One of the things I hold near and dear to my heart is my vast network of friends. Some are closer than others of course, but I've spent a lifetime acquiring these friendships, and I wouldn't trade them for anything, including cash money.

I received an email early yesterday afternoon, and its contents were confirmed last night, that one of my friends will be leaving to start a new phase in his life. KY3 anchor Jerry Jacob is off to work for Uncle Sam and has joined the Army. Yes, it surprised me. After Tony Beason left the anchor job, Jerry seemed to have it locked in until such time as he decided he didn't want it. That time came a lot sooner than I thought it would.

I have enjoyed his jokes, his charisma, and his wit. For the most part, Jerry is the same person off the air, as he is in front of the camera. That's a rare trait in the broadcasting industry. I hope I'll get to sit down and have a beer with him before he leaves for basic. Good luck, Jerry. Thank you for your sacrifice for our liberties, and for believing in something so strongly, that you had to be a part of it. I know we'll keep hearing from you.

Television Just Isn't Worth It

2006-12-04T23:33:00.000-06:00

It's been a long time since I've gotten addicted to a television show, and that's by design. See, I would find something I really liked, get hooked on it, and miss half the episodes. Yes, I could have recorded them, but, I had to remember to record them in the first place! Sad to say, but I do have that short an attention span at times. I also hated the dreaded "To Be Continued..." episodes because I would without fail, miss the follow up.

Enter the DVR and my life became a little easier. Set it once, and it's done. No tapes, no fuss, no muss.

Ok, back to the story. I've gotten addicted to the series "HEROES." I'm not going to say it stimulates the mind like an early series of "West Wing" did, but the "what the hell is going on here??" factor is still great. So far, it's got few slow spots, clipping along at a brisk pace and keeping the mind busy with a good set of intricate story lines. The latest episode closes and I wait for the trailer for the next episode...that starts January 22nd.

What? What the hell? January 22nd?? Oh no there jack, you've got to be KIDDING! Its well before Christmas and the networks have decided that television will now come in the form of TWO mini-seasons instead of ONE. When did that happen???? What kind of laziness are the masters of the airwaves trying to pawn off on me?

In the end, I will stew about this until after the first of the year, I will watch the show, and I will be ticked the entire time that I have been trapped, by the marketing wizards of network television. When this season is over, I will make the pact with myself once more...never again.

I just wonder how many others are ticked with this same situation...

Springfield's Own Abominable Snowman

2006-11-30T22:35:00.000-06:00

With the sleet, snow, and of course the ice, Thursday was indeed a frosty day in Springfield. But while lots of little boys and girls were getting their noses bitten by ol' Jack Frost, R-12 Superintendent Dr. Norm Ridder was perhaps having the frostiest day of all. Our district's top educator raised the ire of parents and students alike by not decisively canceling school in a timely fashion.

For the last 20 years, Springfield's Board of Education, and past Superintendents have tried (without much success in my opinion) to keep from bumbling almost every important decision that has come before them. However, this lack of common sense is astounding, especially from those who profess above average IQ's.

My advice to Doc Ridder is simple. Unlike your predecessor Jack Ernst, refuse to abuse the privilege of being stupid. If schools don't have power, don't send the kids to class. Also, know that when the new and beautiful Parkview is sitting partially powerless, it's time to throw in the towel, and send EVERYONE home as soon as possible.

Living in the Past, Springfield Style, Part II

2006-11-29T17:06:00.000-06:00

A good portion of my first post was spent walking through memories of the Professional Building. During the youth of my life, I spent much of my time there, and I enjoyed it so much. People aren’t always the nicest to kids, but I got lucky – they were to me.

Anyone remember Knight’s Coins & Stamps on South Street? It’s where the camera shop is now. Bill Knight was the owner, a bigger man with glasses, slicked back hair and a booming voice. Always had a fun time in that store because he just had so much stuff that was so interesting!

Still can’t remember the name of that restaurant in the Plaza Towers. That’s going to vex what good brain cells I’ve got left.

Just across the street from that in the Plaza Shopping center was Freeman’s Men’s Wear. Dad always went there to get his suits, ties, and cologne. I think everyone was shocked when Jim Freeman decided to shut the doors almost 10 years ago. I still see him from time to time, and it brings back the memories of how that shop smelled and looked.

Ok, here’s a big one for me. Let me qualify this with the statement that I am physically in shape. Round, good friends, is a shape! *laughs* Ok. Calvert’s Cafeteria used to be at the corner of Chestnut and Kimbrough streets, where Municipal Court is. They used to have this wonderful Fruit Cocktail cake that was out of this world! That was the best treat when I was young. Smothered in Cool Whip or served up plain, I loved it. If anyone runs across the recipe for that – pass it along if you don’t mind.

Back on the square, the Fox Theatre occupied the space where the evangelical church is now. Its ticket booth is still preserved outside. Last movie I saw there was the original “Herbie” flick.

I never have liked Pizza House on Glenstone. I got sick there once as a kid and had to run to the john so I could call “Ralph” on the big white phone. Lots of people swear by it and it’s goodness. Thank you; go eat your pizza I’ll just have a PB&J.

Godfather’s Pizza used to be in the Southern Hill’s Shopping Center where Clary’s is now. Always a great atmosphere and pizza too. Mom still has a glass pitcher from Coke that you could buy from there for “endless drinks.”

Wow…I ALMOST forgot about Shakey’s Pizza! You can’t miss the old location – there on Glenstone, which was until just recently, the home to the Pink Cadillac Strip Club. There was always this good smell that came from Shakey’s – when it was Shakey’s of course. I guess there are still a few left around the country. By far, that was the coolest place around to have a birthday party.

Three pizza places in a row…no wonder I’m fat! Let me switch gears here…

Some wonderful nightspots have gone into the cobwebs of my memory as well, including:

The Shady Inn – Bass Pro finally turned that into a parking lot, save for the great tree that had been the signature of the establishment. I was very sad…partied my butt off in the piano bar and feasted on Prime Rib (their specialty) before going across the pond to England in December, 2001. When I came home, the Shady was no more.

Culley’s – A great spot to go downtown to drink piss warm beer and listen to Alan Ross sing bawdy Jimmy Buffetesque style songs. Chinga te, Alan, you and Ken ruined a good thing.

Mostly, I miss my drunken days at the Yucatan Beach Club (a.k.a. The Meat Market) the most. There was one wild New Year’s Eve where I was so blasted; I couldn’t find my rear end with both hands and a road map. Across the room saw this HOT girl, and her ass was just calling my name…wanting me to come over and grab it. Within’ inches of the targeted goal, she turns, and I find out it’s the wife of my best friend! Buh…what a mood killer. Turns out, it wouldn’t have bothered her if I had gone through with it - she was lusting after our OTHER mutual friend, and that marriage died a violent death.

I think that’s enough memories for a little while. Stupid people are surrounding me with questions here at work, so I’ve got to go club them away. Think I’ll send them down the hall to one of the other bosses…

Living in the Past, Springfield Style, Part I

2006-11-27T00:06:00.000-06:00

Ok, you caught me.

On more than one occasion, I've been accused by any number of people of living in the past. Yes, I do like spending precious amounts of time trying to remember things from my childhood, like almost everyone I know does. I was just dusting off some of the cobwebs so, feel free to join me. A trip down memory lane - The Queen City of The Ozarks circa the 1970's:

How did that jingle go for Swiss Villa Amphitheatre in Lampe? (...Swiss Villa, where the Star's Come Out At Night!) Larry Wood @ KY3 gets the credit for creating it. And for those who read this blogg @ KY, tell Elrod I never forgot it either.

My favorite drink at Taylor's south side location, across the street from Aunt Martha's? (Cherry-Vanilla Dr. Pepper)

Who was that barber that pealed my noggin like an onion at the Professional Building when I was still an ankle-biter? (Well, none other than Herb @ Herb's Barber Shop)

I remember Herb's Barber Shop too. The lighting was kind of yellowish, there was a TV mounted up high in the corner. The floor had linoleum tile with little gold/brown flecks in the pattern. And there was a shoe shine stand.

Who was the woman behind the fountain at the Professional Building that served me up a huge chocolate malt AFTER I got my head pealed by Herb? (Flossie)

Who were the two Pharmacists behind the counter, one older, one younger...and both of them were bald. (Easy one there. My dad & grand-dad :)

What was the name of the nice old janitor at the Professional Building who would lean down and talk to me? He was distinctive in that he wore nothing but Florsheim wing tips when he worked. (Thomas was his name, but I always heard others refer to him as Black Thomas. There has never been a kinder soul than that man. Sad ending. He was shot to death in an apparent burglary/robbery attempt some years ago here in Springfield.)

Walking through the "Bargain Breezeway" on the West side of Heer's.

Laughing when someone called Heer's "Here's." I knew right away they were from out of town.

Meals in the Dogwood Room.

"Consumers, Consumers, the Best Supermarket Under the Ozark Skies" (Clarence & Edna Wheeler - BOTH class acts!)

There was a restaurant there in the Plaza Towers @ Sunshine & Glenstone. Damned if I can remember the name of it. Right up until it closed, it reeked of the 70's...and I loved it.

Ditto with the original name of the night club where Studebakers - now Foreplay strip club is today. I remember seeing the guys in their white polyester leisure suits, strutting up to the door, in search of a pretty young bird to hook up with. Damn, I wanted to be one of those guys when I grew up.

Ebenezer’s Restaurant.

Toby's Restaurant (corner of Campbell & Walnut, where the bookstore is now.)

The Library / Ray Yep's Cafe USA / Ray's...all inhabiting the same building at Oak Grove and Sunshine. One of the few lots in town that was cursed. I always thought that building would have been one hell of a nightclub, but it was torn down, and now is a Great Southern Bank branch.

Crazy Cecil's Toy Land.

Napolitano's Restaurant on Walnut Street (This used to be a very nice place to spend an evening out. Start at the Landers and walk east toward Jefferson. Stop at the photo studio and that's where it was. The 2 big circles above, on either side of the studio's name, used to be pizzas.)

Sunshine Drive (Where Corporate Center is now.)

And I'm going to take a breather for now, but not to fear, I'll keep on with the list over the next few days. So many memories! Hope you enjoy them as much as I have remembering them!

Message In A Bottle

2006-11-25T23:13:00.000-06:00

Close your eyes and imagine that you're standing on some sandy beach. It doesn't have to be an exotic location by any means...someplace in the states. Let's say...Biloxi, Mississippi. You're walking along the stretch beach that runs in front of the hurricane shattered ruins of Beauvoir, Jefferson Davis' once stately mansion and last home.

As the sand squishes between your toes, you kick a half-hidden bottle out of its resting place and it rolls out and stops not far from you. Like in the old movie, you see it. As you pick up the clear glass, cork sealed bottle, you see a little scroll rolled tightly inside. You can only see one line of writing on the outside:

"Your Life in 4 Years - You've Been Warned."

So...would you read it?

Any good student of geopolitics should pick up a copy of Lady Margaret Thatcher's book "Statecraft." Published in 2002, she gives some excellent insight on America's roll as the dominant super power in the world. Also, she gave some interesting advice on page 39 - advice that would have been well headed by G - Dub, Doc Rice and the White House minions.

It reads:
Don't believe that military interventions, no matter how morally justified, can succeed without clear military goals.

Don't fall into the trap of imagining that the West can remake societies.

Don't take public opinion for granted - but don't either underrate the degree
to which good people will endure sacrifices for a worthwhile cause.

Don't allow tyrants and aggressors to get away with it.

And when you fight - fight to win.

Sometimes, reading the message in a bottle is not a bad thing after all.

-- MR's NOTE:
I visited Beauvoir about a year and a half before Katrina hit. She was not only a beautiful building, but, the only "old southern plantation" style home to survive at all. If you would like to contribute to the restoration of Beauvoir, you can click on their official link for further information. http://www.beauvoir.org/

Reality Check: Why Union's Are A Good Thing

2006-11-24T12:16:00.000-06:00

Let me say this up front - I am not, nor have I ever been a member of organized labor. However, I can see its need, now more than ever.

Let me explain.

This goes back to the November elections where we voted to raise minimum wage. I voted for it, while one of my good friends voted against it. We got into a passionate discussion about the matter, and he argued that raising the minimum standard was not a good idea, and would not put money in your pocket like you thought it would. I proceeded to tell him he was nuts, this is exactly what was needed to help get everyone closer to a living wage, etc...

Looks like he might have been right.

If you're just making minimum wage, then things will be looking up a little. But, that's before the prices of goods and services go up. For those of us who are above it...will the money in our pocket increase? Probably not. I don't know of many employers who will just hike your pay by a dollar because minimum wage went up. You're already above it, so don't gripe.

Will goods and services continue to climb in price? Probably so. So, the job that you were doing at the start of this year for X-amount of money has now been cut by a dollar against the minimum. It's like the company is getting you for a buck less an hour.

Unions exist because businesses do not treat their workers well. If they would pay a fair wage, with decent benefits, there would be no unions. However, that's not the case today.

So, what are you going to do about it?

A Few Good Men

2006-11-20T02:05:00.000-06:00

When was the last time you did something good for yourself?

One of the best things I have ever done, was to become a Freemason. My journey started as a youth, when I was a member of Farnsworth Chapter, Order of DeMolay here in Springfield. It is still in existence, and meets every 2nd & 4th Thursday, 7pm, at the Masonic Temple - 1930 W. Catalpa.

When I was 18, I became a Mason and it has made a huge difference in my life. If you've always wondered about the fraternity, I've included a link to the Grand Lodge of Missouri that should answer some of your questions:

http://www.momason.org/beamason.asp

Give it a read, and drop me an email. We're always looking for a few more good men.

midwesternrecluse@gmail.com

A Turkey Ain't Nothin' But A Bird

2006-11-19T11:41:00.000-06:00

It was about 3 weeks ago and an old friend had stopped by work for a brief visit. As we were talking, the subject of the holidays came up.

"What the hell has happened to Thanksgiving, anyway?" he spewed. "People haven't even had time to take down Halloween decorations yet, and already the damned Christmas lights are up. I think we should move Thanksgiving away from Halloween & Christmas so it can get the attention it deserves."

At that moment in time, I thought he had lost his marbles. Old age was setting in and senility was beginning to take over a once brilliant mind. However...the more I've thought about it, the more I think he's got it right. Thanksgiving is sandwiched between two of the most commercial holidays on the face of the planet. You don't see retailers gearing up for the big Easter rush, or the big Veterans Day sale. No. It's Christmas, and Halloween, and pretty much nothing in between.

Since we can't seem to figure out how to get this low profile day to turn a dime, maybe we should consider moving this family oriented, non-revenue generating holiday out of the way of the Titanic 2 - Thanksgiving in May, and Christmas & Halloween can compete freely for your dollar. But to some, making a buck IS what America has become, and what they are most thankful for. Sad...

-- MR's Note:
The title of this article comes from the title of a song done by Cab Calloway. However, the song is actually about a Chicken, not a Turkey. But, I couldn't have an article about 1 fowl, and use another bird in the title, could I? That would have been pretty chicken to!

G - Dub's War

2006-11-16T23:54:00.000-06:00

During this past election cycle, the pundits and talking heads alike fingered the war in Iraq as one of the main reasons the Dems took charge of capitol hill. Now, anyone with half a brain cell can figure that out. G-Dub's popularity has dropped through the bottom of the floor, our troops have had to stay in country longer than they had planned, and for some reason, the administration didn't put together an exit strategy to bring our men and women home from the middle eastern sandbox.

While all of this makes me mad, what makes me madder still, almost to the point of ranting and raving, is the real reason behind this mess in the first place.

I'm not stupid. Before he was even elected a first time, I knew we would be back in Iraq, and I told my Republican friends so.

So, why were did we send our troops in harms way in the first place? It wasn't oil. It wasn't the war on terror. It wasn't to free a country from an oppressive dictatorship. All it was, was a simple good ol' fashion grudge match. That's it.

If G-Dub had just been honest about the ordeal, I would have respected him a little more. Have some moxy about it. Hold a televised press conference and announce to the American people; "This man tried to kill my father, and now that I'm President and leader of the free world, I'm going to send our troops in and go mop the floor with his sorry ass!" American's would have loved it! Young men and women would have signed up by the droves just to get in on a good ol' fashion ass whipping.

Bush should have learned to speak the truth. Americans have the ability to smell a pile of BS when they come across it. That right there, is the reason why I respect our troops to the fullest, but think this whole war was worthless.

Clubbin' In the Metro - Problem Solved?

2006-11-13T11:02:00.000-06:00

Before I turned 21, the only way you could go clubbin' here in Springfield was either with a fake ID, or by sneaking in the back door and slipping a dime note into the hand of one of the friendly bar staff. Now, I'm not saying that I ever tested either theory, but, at one point, I knew the clandestine entrances of may of the town's hot spots.

So, here's the deal. Kids under 21 have now been kicked out of local night clubs. Voters resoundingly said that a bar was not the place kids need to be. I'm wondering:

How will this effect business of the club owners?
When it does, who will be the first to find a loophole? (rumors of a loophole are already flying around, but I've not looked at the ordinance enough to know).
Have we put our kids in more danger?

Look lets be honest. Kids are going to do what they are going to do. If they get a burr in their rear end to hit the hooch, they'll do it at either a bar, at someone's house, or they'll find a field in the middle of nowhere and get hammered.

Over time, the numbers won't lie and I'll be very anxious to see the statistics for myself. Did we take care of a real problem, or did we just push the problem further out of sight so we don't have to see it?

From Zero to Hero - You Gotta' Love It!

2006-11-08T17:57:00.000-06:00

I love politics. Honest to God I can't get enough of them. I've taken that little spot in my brain that's usually reserved in men for their favorite sports stats, and transformed it into a political dumping ground! Why do I love politics? Let me show you an example and I can do it in two words - Joe Lieberman.

Here is a guy who is a sitting US Senator. He looses his primary election, decides to drop his party affiliation, and run as an Independent. The Democrats pour money against him like pounding sand down a rat hole. But it didn't work.

He won.

MSNBC was commenting on this same fact this morning. Joe Lieberman woke up today the same man, but a changed man. He went from down and out, to being able to write his own ticket in the new Senate. Now, I've never been that big a Lieberman fan and I hated that he took the President's view on the war. But my hat's off to him for believing that he knew his constituents better than his state party did.

Oh, one more thing. Can you IMAGINE the butt kissing that he's going to be getting in Washington from both parties? I'm sure he'll LOVE it! Senator Lieberman, please step forward and pick your committee chairmanship...

Thank GOODNESS It's Over

2006-11-08T17:27:00.000-06:00

I was so tired last night, but like the 2000 presidential race, I couldn't bring myself to log off the internet or turn off the television until I saw who had won the Missouri Senate race.
You've got to hand it to Claire McCaskill. She slugged it out until the wee hours of the morning against a political party and an opposing candidate who spent more money than she did. What made the win even more satisfying, Jim Talent was an incumbent, and...to his own detriment, reminded too many people of the President. Sen. Talent should have taken a clue and a pass card when G-Dub wanted to come a stumpin' for him. Other candidates threw on their asbestos suits, and dove out of site...and some of them lived to fight another day.

Overall, McCaskill had the best platform to win. Why did she win? The answer is simple. She's wasn't Jim Talent, or George Bush. One more thing to those who harp all the time about term limits. As last night proved, we already have them. They're called elections. When enough of the people get sick and tired of the same old thing, they WILL make a difference.

For Goodness Sakes, VOTE!

2006-11-07T15:20:00.000-06:00

Election Day 2006 - it's halfway over!
Have you voted?

One of the things that truly amazes me in this country is voter apathy. We are one of the very fortunate countries where you can go and change the very fabric of government, and through that, society as a whole...with your vote. There is no military presence, no fear of retribution, no riots, no intimidation. Men & women have fought for years for the full rights of citizenship. If you are 18, all you have to do is step up and register to claim what others have fought so hard to preserve.

For what...40% turn out?

That, is a disgrace. We should have packed polling places at every election. So, let's make THIS election count. Get off your rear end and make a difference. Go vote.

Talent-less

2006-11-06T13:10:00.000-06:00

Today marks that last day of heavy political advertising on tv & radio for tomorrow's elections. Now sure, there will still be some ads on the air Tuesday, but for the most part, they will be done for another election cycle.

I don't know about you, but to me, the negative mud slinging has been worse this year than ever. He kicked a dog, she shot a bunny, he hates the elderly, she might as well be a communist because she doesn't pay her taxes...shut up. All of them just need to shut up. Don't insult my intelligence, quit trying to drag the un-dead, quivering body of your opponent through the river of muck and instead, act like you're out of the 3rd grade. What are the problems you see in Missouri? What are you going to do to fix them? Why should I cast a ballot for you? "Straight Talk" - the slogan Sen. John McCain used during his presidential bid, would be appreciated by everyone.

As for my own political views, they are pretty simple. I'm not rich enough to be a Republican, so I'm a proud Greene Country Democrat. I hope beyond hope, that we get that boob Talent out of the senate. I'm Midwestern Recluse, and I approve this message :)

Here He Comes Again...

2006-11-05T23:19:00.000-06:00

I'm sure you've got one of "those guys" in your office or place of business. You know the one I'm talking about. He comes lumbering down the hallway and when your coworkers see him, they begin franticly shoving anyone that's not paying attention into his path, just so they can get away and not have to talk to him.

And this guy will talk! It doesn't matter about what really, because he'll talk about ANYTHING! Could be the newest thing his neighbors are doing to their house, or his last physician's visit with Dr. Big Finger. Who knows, maybe if you get a lucky day, he'll corner you for 20 minutes and tell you about his E.D. and everything leading up to him popping the "little blue bomb" so he could have sex with his wife last night. Yeah, now you know the guy. Gives ya' the willies and you wish he'd just get the hell away and go bug someone else.

He won't. And you're stuck with him.

Can You REALLY Get Away from Yourself?

2006-11-04T16:20:00.000-06:00

I've been contemplating vacation lately. Someplace with warm winter skies, a beach, palm trees, good food and music - you know, somewhere that you can just relax and forget it all. Problem is this...I need a vacation from myself. Do you ever feel that way? I mean, dear Lord, sometimes it's complicated being me. I'd just like to put myself in the corner, with all my problems and vices, and get away for a while. Rest up, eat right, live good, and then come back to take care of business.

Make sense?

Great pic, huh? Havana Bay at sunset. Mmmmm...gotta' love it.

Private Ponderings

2006-11-04T13:13:00.000-06:00

Have you noticed that there seems to be some strange fascination with writing thoughts and emotions online? These private ponderings will be published for strangers across the globe to read, yet, these same things you wouldn't dare share with people that are close to you. Maybe this immediate venting to the masses is therapeutic. Maybe it's the voyeuristic part of our personality - the want to live in a glass house and deny that others are watching.

Maybe...it's just a way out.